Месяц: Сентябрь 2015

The New World of Men and. Women

The men will complain of your reserve. They will assure youthat a franker behaviour would make you more amiable. Buttrust me, they are not sincere when they tell you so. John Gregory, A Father’s Legacy to his Daughters(2nd edn, 1774), 36 In the various nations [of the world] we find men, in grada­tions from brutality […]

THE CULTURE OF ROMANCE

So far we have not distinguished “romance” from love. For there are no two kinds of love, one healthy (dull) and one not (painful) (“My dear, what you need is a mature love relationship. Get over this romantic non­sense.”), but only less-than-love or daily agony. When love takes place in a power context, everyone’s “love […]

The paper warrior, s

ITEM The Japanese call it karoshi — death from overwork. In the past twenty years m japan, sudden deaths among top executives have increased 1.400 percent16 A survey by the Japanese government found that executives average seventy hours per week: twelve-hour workdays, six days per week.17 It is not unusual for these executives to go […]

NOVEL ATTITUDES

This is why the first great novelists of the English language were so obsessed with seduction. Foremost amongst them was Samuel Rich­ardson, whose Pamela (1740), Clarissa (1747-8), and Sir Charles Grandison (1753-4) were the most sensationally popular and influen­tial fictions of the eighteenth century. His was a classic instance of the growing power of female […]

SOCIAL CLASS AND EMOTIONAL LABOR

There are jobs at every socioeconomic level that place emo­tional burdens on the worker, but these burdens may have little to do with the performance of emotional labor. Among the lower classes, where work is often deskilled and boring and the work process beyond the worker’s control, the emotional task is often to suppress feelings […]