День: 07.11.2015

MASTURBATION RECONCEPTUALIZED

While infant and childhood masturbation may in fact be among the most universal of human experiences, the meanings and consequences of such activity are varied. Like most of the dimensions of infantile sexuality, the understanding of the content of inf fantile and childhood masturbation rests upon borrowed words and thoughts, words and thoughts borrowed from […]

The Callosum Colossus

Suppose my utopian vision, as described in the last chapter, came to pass. Would all gender differences disappear? Would we award jobs, status, income, and social roles based only on individual differences in phy­sique, intellect, and inclination? Perhaps. But some would argue that no mat­ter how widely we opened the door, ineluctable differences between groups […]

Discovering Your Partner’s Needs

■ Efforts to communicate with sexual partners are often hin­dered by yes/no questions, which encourage limited replies. Effective alternatives include open-ended and either/or questions. ■ Self-disclosure can make it easier for a partner to communi­cate her or his own needs. Sharing fantasies, beginning with mild desires, can be a particularly valuable kind of exchange. ■ […]

Toward the End of Gender Tyranny: Getting There from Here

Simply recognizing a third category does not assure a flexible gender system. Such flexibility requires political and social struggle. In discussing my ‘‘five sexes’’ proposal Suzanne Kessler drives home this point with great effect: The limitation with Fausto-Sterling’s proposal is that legitimizing other sets of genitals. . . still gives genitals primary signifying status and […]

Masturbation

Masturbation is one of the most underreported sexual behaviors in adolescence. This is mainly because adolescent masturbation is a sensitive topic, and adolescents are often somewhat reluctant to admit to doing it (C. J. Halpern et al., 2000a). Masturbation dur­ing adolescence is more likely to be reported during adulthood than during adolescence itself. As boys […]