Throughout this chapter we have discussed the importance of communication and its role in the development of healthy, satisfying relationships. Good communication skills are an integral part of all healthy relationships, and couples who know how to communicate with each other are happier, more satisfied, and have a better chance of making their relationship last. Many relationship problems stem from poor communication. When it comes to sexual relationships, good communication skills are vital. By talking to your partner, you can share your sexual needs and desires and learn what your partner’s sexual needs are. In turn, this can strengthen your overall relationship. It’s important to be honest and open and ask for what you need.
Understanding gender differences in communication can help you minimize dis-
agreements and misunderstandings. It’s also important to pay attention to nonverbal cues because we know that much of our communication is interpreted through our nonverbal behavior. Talking about sex isn’t easy. We live in a society that believes sex talk is dirty or bad, but talking about sex is one of the best ways to move a relationship to a new level of intimacy and connection.