Ask Clarifying Questions

Your partner may deliver a complaint so vaguely that you need clarification. If this hap­pens, ask questions. Suppose your partner complains that you do not take enough time in your lovemaking. You might respond by asking, "Do you mean that we should spend more time touching before we have intercourse, or that I should wait longer before coming, or that you want me to hold you for a longer time after we have sex?"

Updated: 07.11.2015 — 06:39