Female Genital Mutilation
Prince Charles was made public. In reality, many activities can shred the hymen, including vigorous exercise, horseback or bike riding, masturbation, or the insertion of tampons or other objects into the vagina. Still, in many cultures during many historical eras, the absence of bloodstained sheets on the wedding night was enough to condemn a woman as “wanton” (promiscuous), and some knowing mothers encouraged their newlywed daughters to have a little vial of blood from a chicken or other animal to pour on the sheet of their bridal bed, just in case. Although virginity “testing” (to check for an intact hymen) has been against the law in some countries, illegal virginity tests are routinely performed (Pelin, 1999). Reconstructive surgery to repair a ruptured hymen is practiced in some countries (such as Turkey), but because of fear of repercussions, many physicians are afraid to perform these surgeries (Cindoglu, 1997).
There has been enough demand from women who desire “hymen-plasty” that today a handful of physicians offer the procedure. Hymen reconstruction is a procedure in which the mucous membranes in the vagina are sewn together to make a woman appear to be a virgin (Azam, 2000). Women from Middle Eastern cultures and many American and Canadian women have undergone such procedures.
Bartholin’s Glands The “greater vestibular glands,” or Bartholin’s (BAR-tha- lenz) glands, are bean-shaped glands whose ducts empty into the vestibule in the middle of the labia minora. Historically, Bartholin’s glands have been presumed to provide lubrication for penile penetration of the vagina; however, they do not actually secrete enough lubrication for intercourse (Blumstein, 2001). It is also thought that they might be responsible for creating a genital scent. The Bartholin’s glands can become infected and form a cyst or abscess. When this happens, a woman experiences pain and swelling in the labial and vaginal areas. This is most common in women between the ages of 20 and 29 years old (Aghajanian et al., 1994).
The Perineum The perineum (pear-uh-NEE-um) is the tissue between the vagina and the anus. During childbirth, the baby can stretch the perineum, and in some women, it may tear or a doctor may do an episiotomy to allow more room for the baby’s head to emerge (we will discuss this more in Chapter 12).
Question: I’ve always been worried about the size and shape of my vaginal lips. They just seem too big and floppy. At this point, I’m so embarrassed about them that I can’t imagine ever being comfortable showing them to anyone. Is there anything I can do to fix them?
It’s important to remember that vulvas come in a variety of different shapes and sizes. Some women have long labial lips, whereas others have shorter ones. With the introduction of smaller swimsuits, bikini waxes, and exposure to various pornographic images, many women today are feeling increased pressure to have the "perfect vulva." Concerns like yours are common and it’s important to know that what you describe is perfectly normal.
However, there are some women that are so concerned about their vulva that they opt for vaginal plastic surgery. Vaginoplasty (tightening of the vaginal muscles) and labiaplasty (reduction of the labia minora) are two of the most popular vaginal procedures, even though they can cost up to $8,000. Research indicates these procedures are not without risk—reduced sensation and/or impaired sexual functioning are common side effects (Navarro, 2004). My advice would be to make peace with your vulva and don’t be brainwashed into believing there is a perfect vulva!