Like women, some men feel very comfortable with masturbating, whereas others do not. Here are some comments from men:
I used to never masturbate because she always did such a good job on me. Also, I guess Female masturbation. all the things drilled in your head before you can think made me think that it was degrading, selfish, a waste of time, and why do it yourself when a woman is much better.
(Hite, 1981, pp. 488, 491)
I know other guys do it, but it doesn’t feel right for me. I just think I should be with a partner when I have an orgasm! (Author’s files)
One final word about masturbation: Some may choose not to do it for personal or religious reasons. Others may enjoy the release of sexual tension. This is an individual choice that each person needs to make for himself or herself.
SEX in Real Life
Sexual Expression on Spring Break
^ Sexual behavior with Others————————————- ‘
We have already discussed the influence of hormones, ethnicity, and religion on sexual behavior. It is also important to understand that cultural factors, such as sex-role stereotypes, may influence sexual behavior. Our culture helps us define what is considered acceptable and unacceptable sexual behavior. Some people experiment with different techniques, whereas others accept a smaller set of sexual behaviors. Overall, research has shown that not only is sexual satisfaction an important component to a happy marriage (Henderson-King & Veroff, 1994), but it is also linked to satisfaction, love, and commitment in sexually active dating couples as well (Sprecher, 2002).